whateveaaaaaaa

Would it really kill people to be nice? don't get me wrong there are plenty of extra stressors in life that piss everyone off and we tend to take things out on those who care about us the most. But more often people just tend to be cold. The dramatics and exaggeration of how hard one may have it when they really don't at all. Im guilty of it too but to be cold is a whole other issue. Negativity has a sneaky way of spreading itself around and I just don't want it anymore, everyone needs someone in their lives that picks them up not knocks them down. Your in a bad mood? don't bring those around you down also don't make them feel bad. No doubt vent away, get mad, tell them about it... but to put others in a bad mood to make your misery their company? Im over it. I took an oath a couple days ago with myself... Vent, get mad, talk about it... but try not to bring others around you down. When You think you have it so bad? think that someone else has it way worse. Its all about perspective. The reason why we put up a front, the reason why people are cold and just down right nasty is 90% of the time they were at one point nice but got taken advantage of. Those who ask the question "are you okay?" "whats wrong?" " can i help?" " You sure you okay?" those people more often then not get snapped at, stepped on, taken advantage of. Perhaps if the world were nicer to those who try and help and mean well, it wouldnt kill people to be so nice? nice people get taken advantage of so the world has turned on a front.... I don't know about anyone else but im way over it. selfishness, inconsideration and negativity is a down right turn off. Smile go with the flow and be fucking nice... we may not be able to change somethings through the course of life but this is certainly something I am making a huge effort in. SO over it, arent you?