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So how does it work exactly... We hurt the people we love the most? Does god create two people that are compatible with eachother and place them on different parts of the earth knowing they will find eachother through fate? Or do we find that one person through life as we go along. Is the person you are meant to be with discovered and created as life goes on or is it all planned ahead of time? I'm not sure which one I believe in because I'm aware that there is always room for change. Sometimes I wonder why we even waste time dating people and breaking up if it's already planned for us. It's like we are in gods maze and each person we date and get close to, that doesn't work out is a mouse trap. I'm sure he does this to teach us and make us stronger because after all EVERYTHING happens for a reason. 
   Then you have to factor in why we hurt those we love the most. Is it this subconscious faith that we have , thinking they will always be there for you and always come back? Who knows!? Because even people reappearing back into your life isn't definant. It's fate, faith and forgiveness that will keep us moving.