Sudden Impact

So convinced and educated in knowing I can take care of myself. Just through the rough patches in learning that no one can help you better then yourself. Just from insisting that I do it on my own...I have become stronger. Redefined by events and trauma. A victim of sudden impact to be rehabilitated into something stronger. But is there always guarantee that one can take care of themselves? Is it true that everyone needs someone to care for them? I too sometimes fear that I will fall hard and need someone to care for me, need someone to pick me up. I fear the day that I can't do it on my own. I think I fear most that when I look up from the ground no one will be above. This is why one may put up a front or be cold or afraid to get too close only to fall. FEAR in itself but only until  sudden unexplained  impact changes your whole outlook