It is the things that are familiar to us in which we stay close too. familiar air to breathe, familar surroundings closer to home. This is what keeps us hooked. can't stop, won't stop. To keep the unfamiliar out and only the familiar to be let in. How does one go about getting the familiar and everything they know best to become the unfamiliar? how will you force yourself to hate something and reject it after already accepting it for so long. courage? trial and error? or in order to reject something you accepted in the past, you need to accept something  you would normally reject.  accepting a new thing will allow you to reject the old easier. the counter action will be a key to living life and not living in the past. a part of moving on and living a life is accepting new things, letting old things go. and opening your eyes up to different possibilities