happinesss

The truth is... what is the ultimate happiness? in society, in life, the majority fears dying alone. The truth is... all of our unhappiness comes from out inability to be alone. We depend so much on other people to lift our spirits, make us happy or give us a reason to wake up in the morning. we depend on others so much that we forget what it feels like to find happiness through ourselves. leaning on someone is different then depending on them. depend on no one but yourself, live your life and learn how to make yourself happy it's the only guarantee to the ultimate happiness. You can predict your own actions you can read your own mind and everyone knows what they want within themselves. It's just a matter of if your have the guts to reach for it or make it happen. Deep down everyone knows what the right thing to do is, it's just the side factors that cause a distraction. You know yourself and never let anyone else act or think they know you better. At the end of the day the only person you can depend and guarantee happiness from, is yourself. It's hard to predict what others will do and sometimes they will take you by surprise, sometimes they will leave out of nowhere with no explanation, sometimes they will go bipolar on you and you won't know what is was that caused it. Sometimess... you will blame yourself.  If there is anything i have learned in the past three years, it's to not depend on others. The biggest life lesson is learning how to make yourself happy, although without a doubt its natural others will get you upset, bring you down and disappoint you. As long as you can depend on you to bring yourself back up then everything will ALWAYS be alright.