Its pretty much a known fact that "everything happens for a reason" wether its to benefit you, or hurt you in order to teach you a lesson. For lack of a better choice of words, "shit happens" you falll in love , get emotionally attached, you break up, you hurt. You end up missing the 9am train and taking the ten. You get fired from your job to only find a better one. Your thumb gets slamed in a car door by accident. Although we may not knw what the helll the reason may be, it becomes self evident over a certain period of time. Ever catch urself saying... "well i would of never gotten here if it was for ... " or " i would of nevr met him if i didnt miss my train"